So.. the title might seem like an attack on all men. and especially a man who is his MAMMAS boy. Truth of the matter is most men are big BABIES. They grow up used to their moms treating them extra special cause they are born the PREFERRED GENDER. Just because they are BOYS they get special treatment.
Scenario 1 :
Girl : “Baba can i go out with my friends? Mama Can i stay out late a bit??
PARENTS ” IN6amii wa uskuti waley! FISH 3andna BANAT yes-hary la nsaas il layali bara!
( SHUTUP! we dont have girls that stay out till the middle of the night)
Girl : bas akhooy ( my brother ) stays out with his friends EVERYNIGHT and i just want to go to a party that end at 9pm!! thats when my brother actually LEAVES to go out!!
PARENTS : HOWA WALAD! (HES A BOY)
okay before a lot of men get offended and start saying my parents were fair and treated me like my sisters and applied the same rules.. KNOW that you are a RARE case… in our lovely culture.. this differentiation between genders is very common.. when in ISLAM for the same rules of HARAM and HALAL apply to both MALES and FEMALES..I’m sure that applies to all religions as well!
It’s like parents are okay when their son has a girlfriend and even invite her over to the family! But if their daughter had a boyfriend.. B6en6akh fe qadeyet SHARAF! ( she will be shot in an honour killing)
Don’t get me wrong! I’m not saying girls should have boyfriends I’m totally against that. but I’m just saying parents should apply the same upbringing (tarbeya) rules to both genders equally or they will grow up resenting each other. or even worse the BOY will grow up like most of the GENERATION we have now a days..
MUDALALEEN.. (SPOILT AS HELL) and they are so used to getting the special treatment they expect it wherever they go..
Now that I’m married with 2 kids. I really do feel that at the end of the day I have not 2 but 3 kids.. I go back home and after a long day of running after my kids I have to worry about cooking for my bigger baby..and what he needs and how to make his day easier.
When he gets home instead of feeling OH SOMEONE TO HELP ME! I think OH !! I STILL HAVEN’T COOKED!! OH.. you want SHAY(tea) too ? You want me to look for your shirt? What else do you need?oh I forgot you are very TIRED? Oh the food NEEDS SALT!! KAMAN ANA AJEEBO!
CONCLUSION.. MEN GET OFF YOUR BUMS dont 7amel il dinya jmeeleh that you are a MAN! WOMAN DESERVE MORE APPRECIATION or at least EQUAL APPRECIATION!
I’m in a poetic mood let me try to 6ale3 my ghadab in a form of BOYEM :p
IM a WOMAN, I GET PREGNANT & carry all the weight,
Many days I couldn’t even walk straight!
I Deliver a BABY and I’m in labour for hours,
I Always WAKE UP for night feeding,have no time for showers!,
I COOK, I CLEAN, I HAVE NO TIME for READING
“STOP Hitting your sister!” I yell as i cut the carrots ! OUCH! I’M BLEEDING
I WORRY Constantly, I make sure everyone around me is CARED FOR,
Every Bone in my body aches and feels SORE!
I AM A MOTHER. I POTTY TRAIN!
Most of my days feel like I have been hit by a TRAIN!!
I have cleaned so much poop off floors
I have given TIME OUTS behind many doors!
I have been pooped on, puked on, chewed on, spat on many times
I DO the grocery shopping yes but I have to remember you bring the DIMES!
I MADE our house a HOME, I Drop the kids to school.
I also occasionally make humus & FOOOL
So please before you belittle any WOMAN
remember that NO MAN can bear what a woman CAN
Even if he can cook FATET BETENJAN
He will never handle KOL HAL JNAAAAAAN!!
Side Note to all men.. who say they are tired at work.. and compare tired at work to a MOTHERS daily Routine.. I’ve worked before I had kids.. I had the longest job hours.. the shortest deadlines.. the highest levels of stress.. I barely got any sleep. I thought life couldn’t be any harder.. TRUTH IS no work stress is equivalent to the stress that is caused by your TODDLER! apparently I was not tired before I was fe qimit il Raaaaaa7a..
Its like at the end of everyday me and my huzbandee have this competition of who is more tired.
I say something like ” I have a headache”
Him : aah meee tooo
Me : I can barely walk from my back pain
Him : Do you know where my Cane is my knee is hurting again
Me : oh today I cut myself while I was cooking!
Him : Oh.. salamtek but look at my TOE I think it’s MILTEhebeh
And SO ON… eventually.. he wins.. somehow.. and I end up having to get up.. and DALEL.. instead of sit there and have someone DALELni..
wa gul3a6 ygal3i6ni..
DID I just type all that??